Have you broken up with your girlfriend but still love her very much and want to win her back? Most probably, you will want to win her back as fast as possible, but it is also very important to know that sometimes, more haste means less speed.
Sure, there are people who do managed to win their girlfriend back within a few days but sometimes, it is much better to take the gradual approach.
One mistake that can be made is to call your girlfriend too soon after the break up. You do not want to do that for several reasons.
First, a break up can be very devastating to you. Just after a break up, you will probably feel dazed and confused. Therefore, it is very likely that you will be very prone to making mistakes. Therefore, it is best that you avoid contacting your girlfriend until your emotion has stabilized.
Second, your girlfriend is probably feeling as bad as you. Just because your girlfriend is the one who initiated the break up doesn't mean she won't feel sad. It doesn't matter who initiated the break up. Most of the time, both parties are equally hurt. Of course, it will depend on your particular situation and the reason for the break up.
Therefore, you will also want to give her some space and time to recover. She may just not be ready to talk to you yet.
Another mistake is that some guys tend to call their girlfriend again and again. This usually happen when a guy calls his girlfriend and his girlfriend did not pick up the phone. Because the guy wants to get his girlfriend back as soon as possible and he also feels panic when his girlfriend did not pick up the phone, he starts to call her over and over again.
This is a big mistake because it is an act of desperation. Desperation will only tend to push your girlfriend further away, the opposite of what you want. You will do much better by proceeding more gradually.
If your girlfriend did not pick up the phone, then wait a few days before calling her again. This will show your girlfriend that you are not desperate, even if you really are. Therefore, you girlfriend will be more inclined to pick up the phone when you call her the next time.
By avoiding all those common mistakes, you will stand a much higher chance to win your girlfriend back.
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